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The wise woman’s stone

By Compassion, Wisdom
Woman at Stream (oil painting by Katherine Taylor)

Woman at Stream (oil painting by Katherine Taylor)

A wise woman who was traveling in the mountains found a precious stone in a stream. The next day she met another traveler who was hungry, and the wise woman opened her bag to share her food. The hungry traveler saw the precious stone and asked the woman to give it to him. She did so without hesitation. The traveler left, rejoicing in his good fortune. He knew the stone was worth enough to give him security for a lifetime.

But, a few days later, he came back to return the stone to the wise woman.

“I’ve been thinking,” he said. “I know how valuable this stone is, but I give it back in the hope that you can give me something even more precious. Give me what you have within you that enabled you to give me this stone.”

Sometimes it’s not the wealth you have but, what’s inside you that others need.

[source: http://www.religioustolerance.org/anon08.htm]

Perry’s journey – a tale of two sites

By My journey

Before posting my trip to Krabi with friends, let me share the amazing journey of Perry Gan to north Sulawesi for underwater scuba diving trip. Perry is a friendly and nice guy I know and also an amateur photographer and diver (that was what he told me humbly, though he just got his PADI master diver qualification). I met Perry in photonian‘s gathering and that was when he shared his interesting diving experiences and underwater photos he took. After having chat with him, I discovered that Perry is also a nature lover and always encourages others to protect nature and preserve life.

Two weeks ago when I met Perry again, he shared some underwater photos he took during scuba diving. Those shots are really fascinating. So I made a request to post his photos sharing with other friends and he agreed. More to that, he also shared with me this tale of the two sites (Bunaken and Lembeh) in northern Sulawesi of Indonesia which he experienced. This is the story of a wonderful marine park, some interesting people and a remarkable adventure:

Surface Interval: 3rd Row: See Hian and Greg 2nd Row: Tee, Lee, Helen, Siong, Teng, Perry, Jack. 1st Row: Lily, Ginn and Loy

Surface Interval: 3rd Row: See Hian and Greg 2nd Row: Tee, Lee, Helen, Siong, Teng, Perry, Jack. 1st Row: Lily, Ginn and Loy

North Sulawesi has long been hailed as one of the finest dive destinations our world has to offer. Being a rookie I had come to this place with a brimful of dreamy images conjured up from the centerfolds of diving magazines. Wanting nothing more than to bookmark the flora and fauna; and to put ticks next to images in fish ID books, I ended up getting much more than what I had hoped for. I returned with a very different outlook on the reefs and the sea and now consider myself a convert as well as a macro aficionado.

Spinecheek Anemone fish

Spinecheek Anemone fish

Bunaken and Lembeh, are definitely more than meet the eyes. These are places where the incredible and unusal come together. It is perhaps premature and presumptuous for a newbie to crown this place with such superlatives, not having been to that many dive destinations around the world. I, however, found it simply impossible not to be in awe of the grace and diversity of the sea. What I saw and experienced had enriched me as a diver, as well as made me a human being much more appreciative of the world he lives in. Here is an account of my “fun-tabulous” and “muck-elicious” trip…

Back in May 2008 when I confirmed going on this trip, I had only logged about 50 dives. While in Redang, Tee took me to Sandy Bottom to do my first muck dive. That particular dive yielded many surprises. Apart from the sighting of a pretty sea horse, there was also a tiny painted frog fish, apparently a first in Redang. I was also made acutely aware that buoyancy skill was the determining factor to a good muck dive. A good “honing” session with Tee during that trip proved invaluable.

I later found out that I was actually going with a bunch of “old salts” with an average of 300 dives under their belts. Although a little concerned about how I would measure up, this bunch of “EAD”s proved my worries unfounded and were in fact lots of fun to be with. (EAD: an acronym only known to this particular group, should hopefully be explained to me on my next trip to Anilao.)
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Portrait photography – Xiao Bao

By Photography
Xiao-Bao the kitty on couch

Xiao-Bao the kitty on couch

Since my mom adopts and provides shelter to unwanted cats, I always wanted to have portraits of these cats. I was however being lazy and so missed out many opportunities to get the best moments of these adorable cats.

At last I got a chance today. While I have some free time, I saw Xiao-Bao (Chinese, which means little precious), one of my family’s favorite kitties lying lazily on the couch. It came to my mind suddenly to snap photos of a kitty. Immediately setting up the table lamp and using a white board as a reflector, I was preparing to snap some photos of Xiao-Bao while it still didn’t know what I was trying to do.

Unlike human, taking photos of pets is not easy; pets won’t pose to camera. And if you force it to, it would become irritated and try to escape from you. Patience is definitely virtue and no doubt when it comes to photographing pets. Too there is an advantage of photographing pets, they are ‘naturally’ natural.

When I was photographing Xiao-Bao, I had to keep it as comfortable and at ease as possible, and waited for best moments to press the shutter. Initially the light source irritated Xiao-Bao and it tried to run away from the couch. Fortunately, my mom and sister helped me to pamper and calm the kitty while I tried to capture its photos.

I took my time and enjoyed this session. Eventually Xiao-Bao became tired and fall asleep, then I took a few shots of its nap and ended the shooting. The shots turn out to be ok, but there is space of improvement which can help me sharpen my skill in pet’s portrait photography in future.

Special thanks to Xiao-Bao although it might not know what was going on, and also my mom and sister for helping me. May all beings be happy.

More photos after the jump:

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Best picture of peace

By Drawing and artwork, Wisdom
Peace - by CJ

Peace - by CJ

There once was a king who offered a prize to the artist who would paint the best picture of peace. Many artists tried and submitted their work. The king looked at all the pictures. There were only two he really liked, and he had to choose between them.

One picture was of a calm lake, perfectly mirroring the peaceful, towering mountains all around it. Overhead was blue sky with fluffy, white clouds. It was the favorite of all who saw it. Truly, they thought, it was the perfect picture of peace.

The other picture had mountains, too, but these were rugged and bare. Above was an angry sky from which rain fell and in which lightening played. Down the side of one mountain tumbled a foaming waterfall. A less peaceful picture would be difficult to imagine. But when the king looked closely, he saw beside the waterfall a tiny bush growing in a crack in the rock. In the bush a mother bird had built her nest. There, in the midst of the rush of angry water, sat the mother bird on her nest in perfect peace.

Which picture would you have selected? The king chose the second picture. Do you know why?

“Because,” explained the king, “peace does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble, or hard work. Peace means to be in the midst of all these things and still be calm in your heart. This is the real meaning of peace.”

[source: http://go.webassistant.com/wa/upload/users/u1000057/workspaces/30stories/]

Handicapped and Mentally Disabled Children Centre Melaka

By Involvement
The centre's outlook

The centre's outlook

The Handicapped and Mentally Disabled Children Centre Melaka is located in Bukit Baru, Melaka which it facilitates the handicapped, mentally disabled and autistic children. Currently there are eighty people reside at the centre which is a semi-detached house. It is a public funded centre thus they are in need of financial support from all walk of life. Any sort of contribution will be utilised to the expansion and maintenance of the centre.

These are the items required daily and any contribution will greatly help the centre to reduce their expenses:
Housekeeping

Dettol
Floor (Mopping)
Garbage Bag (Big)
Dish Liquid (Washer)
Toiletries

Body Shampoo
Detergent Bathing Soap
Powder
Tooth Paste
Tooth Brush
Hair Shampoo
Dry Food

Rice
Cooking Oil
Milo
Milk Powder
Condensed Milk

Sardines
Sugar
Onion
Garlic
Potatoes
Ikan Bilis
Eggs

Salt/Ajinomoto
Dhall Beans
Laundry

Soap Powder
Liquid Soap (Dynamo)

CloroxAnd stationeries

Sanitary Wear

Adult Diapers
Sanitary Pads
And stationeries

(font in red = daily usage)

Any contribution can be made to:

Handicapped and Mentally Disabled Children Cnetre Melaka
C-5315, Jalan Penghulu Abbas, Bukit Baru, 75150 Melaka, Malaysia.
Tel: 06-2322530      Fax: 06-2322529
Email: ppkktam@tm.net.my

Thank you for your support for the special children. God bless you and your loves one. May all beings be happy.

斑鸠给我的启示

By Wisdom
两只朱颈斑鸠正在小壁林场筑巢 (photo by 田瑞夫)

两只朱颈斑鸠正在小壁林场筑巢 (photo by 田瑞夫)

小时候很爱抓鸟、养鸟,几乎种种抓鸟的技能都学成了。那时候住在乡下,每天都有各种各样的鸟儿在住家周围觅食。鸟儿也有它的级别,其中又以斑鸠的身价最高。当然也不是每一只斑鸠都珍贵,最重要是叫声越响亮就越值钱,斑鸠不容易捕捉,它们通常出双入对,而且警觉性高,一有风吹草动就迅速飞离。通常我看到邻居的印度人都用一只斑鸠来吸引其他斑鸠,再用特制的捕鸟器引它入笼。

我当然买不起这些捕鸟器,所以用最原始的方法:守株待兔。用一个竹篓之类的器具,以倒盖方式,再用一根小木棒将它一端撑起。木棒连着细绳从屋外拉到家里头,并在竹篓倒盖的下方撒些谷类做饵,一切布置好后自己就躲在家里的窗口,静待斑鸠的出现。只要它们飞到竹篓覆盖的范围内觅食,我就一拉扯木棒,竹篓失去支撑就会盖下,那我就可以“篓中捕鸟”万无一失了。

斑鸠非常机灵,似乎可以预知危险的存在,所以从来不会到竹篓覆盖的范围内觅食。再来是干扰因素太多,鸡也会跑来鸡啄我撤下的饵,还有狗有时闲逛会扯到绳子,让我的陷阱败露。当然这时候我就会让它“鸡飞狗跳”,计谋败露后的不忿都发泄在这些鸡狗身上。另外一个因素是妈妈的唠叨,那时只好鸣鼓退兵,择日再战。

懂得放下的人,最幸福

后来几经努力,终于在一个中午捕获一对中的其中一只斑鸠。那时的我简直高兴得胜过中了彩票,赶忙把那只斑鸠放进布置多时的鸟笼里。另一只斑鸠则一直在附近徘徊,不肯离去。这样的情形一直坚持到傍晚,另一只斑鸠始终徘徊在住家附近。我们就这样对峙着,最后我把鸟笼打开,笼里的那只马上扑向在守候的那一只,很快的双双就消失在夜幕低垂的胶林。就这样童年一直期待的快乐,到手后又让我放走。

奇怪的是我并没有伤心,反而内心有一种释怀的感觉,那一种感觉到今天依然清晰。从此以后我就没有再动起捕鸟的念头,而且每每听到小鸟的吱叫声,心中总会有一股愉悦,它似乎告诉我说:“拥有不一定快乐,懂得放下的人最幸福”。

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