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The life of a Mexican fisherman

By Photography, Wisdom
The life of a Mexican fisherman

The life of a Mexican fisherman

A boat docked in a tiny Mexican village. An American tourist complimented the Mexican fisherman on the quality of his catch. “How long did it take you to get those?” he asked.

“Not so long,” said the Mexican.

“Then why didn’t you stay out longer and catch more?” asked the American.

The Mexican explained that his small catch was quite enough to meet his needs and feed his family.

“So what do you do with the rest of your time?” asked the American.

“I sleep late, fish a little, play with my children, and take a siesta with my wife. In the evening, I go into the village to see my friends, have a few drinks, play the guitar and sing a few songs. I have a full life.”

The American interrupted. “I have an MBA from Harvard and I can help you! You should start by fishing longer every day. You can then sell the extra fish you catch. With the extra revenue, you can buy a bigger boat.”

“And after that?” asked the Mexican.

“With the extra money the bigger boat will bring, you can buy a second boat and then a third boat, and then more until you have an entire fleet of trawlers. Instead of selling your fish to a middle man, you can then negotiate directly with the processing plants. Pretty soon you could open your own plant. You could leave this little village and move to Mexico City, Los Angeles, or even New York! From there you could direct your whole enterprise.”

“How long would that take?” asked the Mexican.

“Twenty — perhaps twenty-five years,” replied the American.

“And after that?”

“Afterwards? Well, my friend,” laughed the American, “that’s when it gets really interesting. When your business gets really big, you can start selling stocks and make millions!”

“Millions? Really? And after that?” said the Mexican.

“After that you’ll be able to retire, live in a beautiful place near the coast, sleep late, play with your children, catch a few fish, take siestas with your wife and spend your evenings drinking and enjoying your friends.”

[source: http://www.trackthetime.com/fun/story-of-the-mexican-fisherman]

当我老了 When I Turn Old

By Compassion, Photography, Wisdom
当我老了 When I turn old

当我老了 When I turn old

当我老了,不再是原來的我。请理解我,对我有一点耐心。
When I turn old, when I am not the original me, please understand me and have patience with me.

当我把菜汤洒到自己的衣服上时,当我忘记怎样系鞋带时,请想一想当初我是如何手把手地教你。
When I drip gravy all over my clothes, when I forget to tie my shoelaces, please remember how I taught you what to do, and how to do many things.

当我一遍又一遍地重復你早己听膩的话语,请耐心地听我说,不要打断我。你小的时候,我不得不重復那个讲过千百遍的故事,直到你进入梦乡。
When I repeatedly tell you the things that you’re tired of hearing, please be patient and listen to me. Please do not interrupt me. When you were young, I told you the same story over and over again until you were sound asleep.

当我需要你帮我洗澡时,请不要责备我。还記得小时候我千方百计哄你洗澡的情形吗?
When I need you to help me bathe, please do not scold me. Do you still remember how when you were young I had to coax you to bath?

当我对新科技和新事物不知所措时,请不要嘲笑我。想一想當初我怎样耐心地回答你的每一个 “为什么”。
When I do not understand new technology, please do not laugh at me or mock me. Please think how I used to be so patient with you to answer your every “Why”.

当我由于双腿疲勞而无法行走时,请伸出你年轻有力的手攙扶我。就像你小时候学習走路时,我扶你那样。
When my both legs are tired and I cannot walk anymore, please stretch out your strong arms to help me, just like when you were a baby learning to walk I held both your hands.

当我突然忘記我们谈话的主题,请给我一些时間让我回想。其实对我來说,谈论什么并不重要, 只要你能在一旁听我说,我就很满足。
When I suddenly forget what subject we are discussing, please give me a little time to recollect. Actually, it does not matter what we are talking about; as long as you are by my side, I am so contended and happy.

当你看着老去的我,请不要悲伤。理解我,支持我,就像你刚开始学习 如何生活时我对你那样。
When you see the old me, please do not be sad. Please understand me and support me, just like how I was with you when you were young and were just learning to face life.

当初我引導你走上人生的路,如今请陪伴我走完最后的路。给我你的爱和耐心,我会报以感激的微笑,这微笑中凝结着我对你无限的爱。
At the beginning, I guided you to the path of life . Now I ask you to keep me company to finish this last leg of my life. Give me your love and patience, I will give you a grateful smile, and crystallized in this smile is my endless love for you.

[source: http://blog.foyuan.net/space.php?uid=77349&do=blog&id=15753]

[News] Lottery winner dies penniless after heart attack from money worries

By Compassion, Wisdom
Keith Gough and his wife Louise from Bridgenorth, Shropshire, celebrating a £9 million Lotto windfall in 2005. Photo: PA

Keith Gough and his wife Louise from Bridgenorth, Shropshire, celebrating a £9 million Lotto windfall in 2005. Photo: PA

A £9 million lottery winner who blew his money on drink, racehorses and football has died penniless after suffering a heart attack brought on by money worries.

Keith Gough’s death brought to an end a story of huge fortune followed by a tragic personal downfall.

After winning the money with his wife, Louise, in 2005, he blew millions on property, drink and horse racing. He bought an executive box at Aston Villa FC and was tricked out of his remaining £700,000 by a con man who persuaded him to invest in a series of non-existent business ventures.

Mr Gough, 58, collapsed and died at his nephew’s house in Broseley, Shrops, last week and friends said yesterday that he had been suffering from financial worries.

One friend, who did not want to be named, said: “Keith always put a brave face on things but he was financially screwed. A combination of carelessness, naivety and generosity left him skint and he was finding it hard to get back on his feet.

“I know the stress of not being able to pay his way was weighing on his mind.”

Mr and Mrs Gough hit the headlines in 2005 when Mrs Gough bought the lucky jackpot ticket from a local shop.

Mr Gough, from Bridgnorth, Shrops, gave up his job as a baker and began drinking heavily. His spending included a £1 million country mansion, £80,000 on a gardener and chauffeur, a £500,000 house, £180,000 on racehorses, £35,000 on the executive box and a £60,000 BMW.

Soon after, his 25-year marriage ended, yet Mrs Gough gave him £1.5 million following their separation.

But as his life spiralled out of control he gambled away tens of thousands of pounds and splashed out on flash cars and parties.

He checked into the Priory rehabilitation clinic in Birmingham for his alcoholism, where he fell victim to fraudster James Prince, who conned him out of £700,000 between August 2006 and July 2008.

Prince, who was jailed for three years and four months last June, befriended him and plied him with alcohol before persuading him to sign over his money for “business ventures”.

John Homer, owner of Broseley News, where Mrs Gough bought the winning ticket, yesterday described him as “a lovely man”.

He said: “Keith was larger than life. I understand he died of a heart attack but I know he had alcohol-related problems as well.

“He was a lovely man and will be sorely missed. Winning the money was the worst thing that happened to him. It’s very sad.”

Les Winwood, a Shropshire councillor friend of Mr Gough’s, said: “He was quite a character and he had a lot of friends who used the pub. I knew him socially, he knew he’d made mistakes with the money but was never bitter and was a great man to know.”

Graham Hall, a former work colleague, said: “It was a tragic end for a larger than life character.”

Last year Mr Gough, who has a teenage son with Louise, said he regretted winning the money.

He said: “My life was brilliant. But the lottery has ruined everything. What’s the point of having money when it sends you to bed crying?

“I thought the lotto win was going to be the answer to my dreams. Now those dreams have turned to dust.”

Mrs Gough, 58, who was a secretary when she won the money, declined to comment. Her former husband’s funeral will be held at Telford Crematorium next week.

[source: http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/7548072/Lottery-winner-dies-penniless-after-heart-attack-from-money-worries.html]

Missing cows

By Drawing and artwork, Wisdom
Missing cows by CJ

Missing cows by CJ

This is the story I read from a book:

A wise man was walking with his students. As they passing by a village, a farmer who seemed very worry and distressed, headed towards them.

He stopped then asked the wise man, “Have you seen a kine cows on your way here?”

“No, sorry to say I did not see any.” the wise man answered.

“Sigh, I am the most unlucky person in this world. These cows are the only assets I have and they are all gone missing now. I have been seeking for days yet I couldn’t find them. How am I going to live on without them?” said the farmer sadly.

“…I am really the most unlucky person in this world. Sigh..” he continued to seek for the cows.

The wise man then turned to his students and said, “You are lucky that you do not own any cow.”

哑哥哥的担当

By Wisdom

哑巴哥哥和病患的妹妹,小小 (照片摘自:百度.com)

病房里有个患尿毒症的乡下女孩,名叫小小。陪她来的哥哥是个哑巴,整天挂着一脸笑脸。女孩的命很苦,自小失去父母,是哥哥一手把她拉扯大的。家里钱都花光了,哥哥不肯看着妹妹在家等死,用自己做的小木车,一路风餐露宿,推着妹妹来到省城大医院。

医生被他们的兄妹真情感动,院方研究决定免费为女孩做换肾手术。这捐肾人,自然就是她的哑巴哥哥。

医生带哑巴哥哥去做配型检查,一切都很顺利,手术时间也迅速确定下来。

医生把哑巴哥哥带到办公室,比划着告诉他,要把他的肾换到妹妹身体里。打了半天手势,说的满头大汗,哑巴哥哥这才明白是咋回事。顿时,他脸上的笑容僵住了,吃惊的望着医生。

医生看了看他的脸色,跟他解释到:“把你的肾换给妹妹,你妹妹就能活;不换,你妹妹很快就要死了。”

哑巴哥哥一脸沉重地低下脑袋,有些犹豫。好一会儿,他才抬起头,朝医生重重点了点头。医生高兴的拍拍他的肩膀,让他回去等。

没想到,当天下午,哑巴哥哥就失踪了
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2nd of April 2010 the World Autism Awareness Day

By Compassion, Wisdom
World Autism Awareness Day Logo

World Autism Awareness Day Logo

Tomorrow is the 2nd of April and it is also the World Autism Awareness Day. World Autism Awareness Day (WAAD) will shine a bright light on autism as a growing global health crisis. WAAD activities will help to increase and develop world knowledge of the autism epidemic and will impact information regarding the importance of early diagnosis and early intervention. Additionally, WAAD will celebrate the unique talents and skills of persons with autism an will be a day when individuals with autism are warmly welcomed and embraced in community events around the globe.

Did you know…

  • Approximately 67 million people worldwide are affected by autism
  • Autism is the fastest-growing serious developmental disability in the world
  • More children will be diagnosed with autism this year than with diabetes, cancer and AIDS combined
  • Boys are four times more likely than girls to have autism
  • There is no medical detection or cure for autism, but early diagnosis and intervention improve outcomes
自闭症 (autism) - image from www.hebei.com.cn

自闭症 (autism) - image from www.hebei.com.cn

An overview on autism

Autism is a complex neurobiological disorder that typically lasts throughout a persons lifetime. It is part of a group of disorders known as autism spectrum disorders (ASD).

It occurs in all racial, ethnic, ad social groups and is four time more likely to strike boys than girls. Autism impairs a persons ability to communicate and relate to others. It is also associated with rigid routines and repetitive behaviors, such as obsessively arranging objects or following very specific routines.

Symptoms can range from very mild to quite severe. All Of these disorders are characterized by varying degrees of impairment in communication skills and social abilities, and also by repetitive behaviors.

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